6/30/2023 0 Comments Aloof woman![]() ![]() But they do not set out in every interaction to be liked. That’s not to say they aren’t pleasing to be around. Naturally desirable women are not people pleasers. ![]() The secret is this: Naturally desirable people, when given the option, choose being respected over being liked. ![]() There is, however, one secret that serves as the essential foundation for attraction, and without which you’ll never truly be able to keep a great guy interested. See, there is no single method that will guarantee that a guy falls in love with you. They are missing what the girl in our first example was sub-communicating that the second girl wasn’t: Self-Respect. Which is an enormous mistake, because it means jumping straight from one unattractive behaviour (excessive people pleasing) straight to another (excessive coldness and game-playing).Īll the while they are missing the beautiful sweet spot in between these two extremes. They’ll conclude that the lesson is that a woman should actively try to be unavailable, indifferent, or even aloof to the charms of men in order to peak a guy’s interest. ![]() They’ll say that it just proves the old adage: Treat them mean, keep them keen. Many will be tempted to read these contrasting examples cynically. What is the difference between these two women? Oh, and she also can’t ever seem to keep a guy interested. Perhaps this person is the archetypal ‘people pleaser’ – she tries extremely hard, she doesn’t make waves, she is quick to agree with anything a guy says in order to force a connection, she is always around to ‘just hang out’ if he wants to. Meanwhile, maybe you know someone else who is the opposite of this woman. She just does her thing – she isn’t especially kind or generous, she doesn’t give guys special treatment or play games, and yet she seems to have no problem getting guys intrigued and wanting to chase her, to text her – she’s even had guys begging to lock her down and be exclusive. Try to think about a friend of yours, or someone you know, who seems to just be effortlessly attractive. What Makes Some Women Naturally Desirable? It’s not the magic bullet, but it’s the powerful weapon that all desirable people possess in their arsenal.Īnd you’ll notice it everywhere once you start looking for the patterns. This simple rule has been proven time and time again to be one of the most universally accepted routes to become more attractive, more sought after, and more intriguing to the opposite sex. Today I want to open the lid on one of the most important rules that all desirable people intuitively understand, whether they are aware of it or not. So unless you know what principles they follow, it’s impossible to replicate their results. You can’t use this advice, because your version of natural isn’t your friend’s version of natural. They don’t consciously break down their method, which is why they will often give you vague slogans like “I just connect with guys and it sort of happens” or “if you just be natural and stop trying so hard guys will like you”. Because when it comes to attracting a member of the opposite sex, even people who are good at it don’t always understand what they are doing. Second, even if your friend offers honest advice, it’s probably not going to be helpful. First, it’s a weird conversation to have with a close friend. But there’s a problem with that approach. Do you have a naturally attractive friend who seems to have guys chasing her, even though she doesn’t look like a stereotypical ‘perfect ten’? ![]()
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